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Worry-Free Living:
Is It Possible?
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by Tom
Caballes
"Leave
all your worries with him, because he
cares for you." 1 Peter
5:7 GNB
Worrying is a modern-day challenge that affects
all of us. We worry about big and small things -
our health, family, jobs, safety, and so on. We
should do what we can to avoid worry, but there
are things that we have no control of. We cannot
see the future, but we know someone who is already
there: God. He does not promise that everything
will turn out the way we want things to be, but He
promises He will be there with us and for us.
Isn’t that enough not to worry? Worrying also
causes many ailments to us. Wouldn’t you trade a
life of anxiety with a more peaceful,
less-worrying life? What has worrying benefited
you? If none, why worry, then?
So How Do We
Start Living A Less Anxious
Life?
- Trusting
God is an essential part of having less
worry. The way you can trust God more is by
getting closer to Him. God cares for you!
The more you draw close to God, the more you
will be confident of His love and provision
for your needs. Seek God in all things. Draw
near to Him at all times, in good times and
in bad.
- Intercede
instead of worry and be at peace. Do not
be anxious about anything, but in
everything by prayer and supplication with
thanksgiving let your requests be made
known to God. And the peace of God, which
surpasses all understanding, will guard
your hearts and your minds in Christ
Jesus. (Philippians 4:6-7 ESV)
- Do
not let anything rob you of your peace with
God. God is our refuge and strength, a
very present help in trouble. Therefore we
will not fear though the earth gives way,
though the mountains be moved into the
heart of the sea, though its waters roar
and foam, though the mountains tremble at
its swelling. (Psalms 46:1-3 ESV)
Worrying is a choice you make; and so is
trusting in God and not being anxious. You
can say no to worrying!
- Be
realistic with your expectations that not
everything will turn out as you expect, but
know that God is there with you always, and
He can turn bad things into something good
for those who love Him – see Romans 8:28. If
you have done your best, learn from your
mistakes. Learn to love imperfect people.
Leave the rest to God.
- Know
that God has a ‘pact’ with you: He promises
that He will take care of you and your
needs, and you promise to follow and serve
Him. Focus on doing your part. God knows His
part very well. But seek first the
kingdom of God and his righteousness, and
all these things will be added to you.
(Matthew 6:33 ESV)
- Let
God be the only source of your security –
not riches, not a good name, not the people
you know. If your security depends on God
alone, you will find that you will be less
anxious about anything. Riches come and go,
and so can a good name or influential
friends; but God will always be there for
you.
- If
God has secured your future by promising
eternal life with Him, you have no reason to
be anxious in this life. Who shall
separate us from the love of Christ? Shall
tribulation, or distress, or persecution,
or famine, or nakedness, or danger, or
sword? (Romans 8:35 ESV) Know that God
has the best in store for you!
- Be
a conqueror – overcome your worries! No,
in all these things we are more than
conquerors through him who loved us. For I
am sure that neither death nor life, nor
angels nor rulers, nor things present nor
things to come, nor powers,
nor height nor depth, nor anything else in
all creation, will be able to separate us
from the love of God in
Christ Jesus our Lord. (Romans
8:37-39 ESV)
Other Scripture passages:
- So we can confidently say, “The Lord is
my helper; I will not fear; what can man do
to me?” (Hebrews 13:6 ESV)
- Cast your burden on the LORD,
and he will sustain you. (Psalm 55:22A
ESV)
- Other Bible verses: Proverbs 3: 5-6; Isaiah
43:1-3; and Jeremiah 29:11.
For personal reflection or
group sharing
- What
worries you nowadays? Is it robbing you of
peace and joy, and preventing you from
serving God?
- To
what or whom is your sense of peace and
security depended on?
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Tom
Caballes is the
National Senior
Administrator and a
National Coordinator
of the Lamb
of God, a
community of the
Sword of the Spirit
with 7 branches
located throughout
New Zealand. Tom
also leads Kairos
New
Zealand, an
outreach program for
high school,
university, and
post-university aged
people.
Tom and
his wife Mhel and
their two
daughters live in
Wellington, New
Zealand.
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